Meet Van Starling II

Serving Cary, Raleigh, Apex, and the Greater Triangle Region

As the Managing Broker at Hodge & Kittrell Sotheby’s International Realty in Cary, North Carolina, I also serve as a trusted real estate advisor to homeowners and high-performing individuals throughout the Triangle.

Navigating important transitions with clarity, discretion, and an outcome-driven strategy is at the heart of what I do. My goal is to ensure my clients feel informed, confident, and well-protected throughout the process. Whether selling locally or relocating to the Triangle from out of state, it is my privilege to help clients achieve their goals while alleviating much of the stress that can accompany selling or buying a home.

Consistently recognized among the top 1.5% of real estate professionals nationally and among the Top 500 agents in the Triangle over the last several years, I believe those results are ultimately a reflection of the trust clients place in me and the relationships built through serving them well.

A BACKGROUND GROUNDED IN DESIGN, CRAFT, AND PERSPECTIVE

After growing up in Raleigh, I attended East Carolina University, earning a B.S. Degree in Communications with a focus on Media Production. I began my career in film and television, spending nine years in the industry before transitioning to real estate more than two decades ago.

Since then, I’ve represented clients in luxury waterfront markets in Palm Beach and Vero Beach, Florida; historic Wilmington, North Carolina; and now throughout the Triangle. That path shaped a deep appreciation for architecture, neighborhood character, thoughtful presentation, and the emotional weight that often accompanies significant real estate decisions.

LUXURY AS AN EXPERIENCE — NOT A PRICE POINT

For me, luxury is not defined by price. It is defined by judgment, preparation, communication, and care — the way the process feels as much as the result.

My role is not simply to sell a home, but to guide clients through positioning, preparation, sequencing, marketing, and negotiation to protect both their outcome and their peace of mind. Stewardship of my clients greatest assets coupled with the relationships built through exclusive Sotheby’s International Realty networks provides my clients with a level of service and exposure that is unparalleled.

Clients who work with me value thoughtful planning over pressure, discretion alongside global exposure, and advice rooted in a long-term perspective rather than short-term theatrics.

INSIGHT FOR LOCAL AND RELOCATING CLIENTS

Whether advising a longtime Cary homeowner or assisting a client relocating to the Triangle, I provide clear insight into neighborhoods, schools, local culture, and lifestyle considerations that support confident, forward-looking decisions.

Having spent much of my life in this region, I understand that choosing a home is about far more than the property itself. It is about finding the community and lifestyle that fit the life you want to live.

COMMITMENT TO COMMUNITY AND STEWARDSHIP

My wife, our three daughters, and our cockapoo have deep roots in Cary and absolutely love calling this community home. My wife, Amanda, and I are active members of MacGregor Downs Country Club, where I enjoy playing golf and she enjoys tennis along with all other events and amenities offered.

I also support philanthropic organizations including the Pretty In Pink Foundation, which provides financial assistance to breast cancer patients across North Carolina. Contributing to the community I serve is a responsibility I take seriously, both personally and professionally.

If you are considering selling a home or planning a move to the Triangle, I welcome a thoughtful conversation.